Sooner or later, most of us who try to cope with depression feel so overwhelmed that all we can hold onto is: I just can't do it. I can't stop being depressed. I can't stop it from coming back. When I can't comes rushing out, it feel like the response to an accusation. Sometimes, I feel the weight of other people's expectations I just don't care anymore! I don't care to create or meet any goals! And that's precisely the reason why you should create and start working toward some. Motivation isn't often something that just falls out of your brain. Sometimes you have to create your own motivation by setting some goals to chase and then pursuing them I don't know how to take care of myself anymore and can't see any future beyond tomorrow. I used to be a pretty creative person but now I look at everything with dull eyes. Part of my history is I have been a caregiver to 4 different family members over the past 8 years, starting with my mother in-law, husband, my son and now her Hi, I'm 72 and have severe arthritis. I struggle with housework and my home is really cluttered but I can't seem to get up any motivation to get it sorted. I also don't cook any more. I can't stand up for long and use 2 sticks to walk around the house. I can't even take my dog for a walk now
The truth is, I can't take care of myself. The truth is, I can't take care of myself. I'm stuck. I lag behind everything. With all my pseudo philosophical thoughts, I desperately try to find some sort of spiritual answer that would give me a sense. That is how I spend most of my time, how I waste my life time. My life experience is a joke I'm done too I don't care anymore he is 7 years old and weighs 85 lbs hes obese for his age and his dad doesnt xut his portions or his gross food he just gives him 2 adult servings of food and I get the look when I'm trying to get SS on a good diet. I'm exhausted and I'm done as well theres only so much a step mom can do
I'm not sure if this is a rant or a cry for help. Probably both. I just don't give a shit about myself anymore. I'm away at college my first semester (I'm not a freshman- I'm a junior transfer) and I thought that this would all end once I got away from my life back home I hope you will update us. Please spare yourself further speaking with your sisters until you have a plan. They are not obligated to care for your mother. They do not intend to do so. Nor can you anymore. Remember, the Social Workers and hospital want to/will do and say ANYTHING to make you take your mother back home to this life you and she have
It would take me close to 30 minutes to coax myself out of bed. The only reason I would even get up was because I had to walk my dog and go to my full-time job. I'd manage to drag myself into. I can't do this anymore, I sputtered to my sister one wine-laden night, through tears bitter with the sting of failure. The Other Girl comforted me and added that she too felt it was time to change the situation. So, we did. We decided to move Mom to memory care. And so, it begins Memory Care: Week 1 - Good Vibration
We all have those moments where we feel like we just can't take it anymore. Keep these tips in your back pocket to keep stress from getting the best of you. Subscribe. 10 Ways to Deal with Feeling. Loneliness is a deep, disruptive hurt that can become chronic and you can't just meet people and get over Giving Up Self-Judgment Letting go of judging yourself for your loneliness is a good first. I can't handle it, my stress and anxiety levels are sky high. I have been to my psychiatrist who changed up some of my meds (hopefully that helps). But as for living alone I need someone with me most of the time. I can't keep up with chores or take care of my son properly although he is 14 so pretty self sufficient. Michel why can't/won't take care of myself?? The forums are currently locked and only available for read only access. why can't/won't take care of myself?? December 7, 2005 5:35 am. cpt1212. New Member. Members. Forum Posts: -1. Member Since: September 27, 2010. Offline. 1. Anybody else have or had this prob? December 7, 2005 6:47 am Immediately say Thank you instead. And when you fail, think of it as a temporary setback, like one failed battle in a year long war. Whatever that failure is, it's nothing and it's not part of your identity. 7. You Put Others Down And You Enjoy It. This is the ugly side of having a low self esteem
4 steps to being able to take it. 1. Emotions are often short-lived and transitory. 2. Think about your experience in the present moment rather than falling prey to words like always and forever. Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube Medical and healthcare strides are allowing people to live well into their 70's and 80's. Despite those health advances, the fact remains that caring for a spouse in need, regardless of their age, is very demanding, stressful and could threaten your own health. The Journal of American Medical Association reports that if you are a spousal.
1: Too Great a Burden on Family. Families all over the world are juggling children, jobs and aging parents in an effort to take care of their own. There can come a point, though, when the demands created by caring for an aging parent outweigh the logistical, financial or emotional resources available And I can take care of myself I don't wanna hear, I don't wanna know Please don't say 'Forgive me' I've seen it all before And I can't take it anymore You're not half the man you think you are Save your words because you've gone too far I've listened to your lies and all your stories (Listened to your stories) You're not half the man you'd like. 4. Educate yourself so that you have all the information you need to make good decisions and to take back control of your life. Study resource books. Check out the internet. Ask people whom you trust. Make your own decisions about what feels right to you and what doesn't. 5 I can't seem to talk myself into taking anymore antidepressants. The pain of this back and forth with her had triggered the want to die again. My dad told me today after my 18 years of life he doesn't want to take care of me anymore because he found another family! and going to school full time and work and having to worry about helping.
Can't Cope Anymore! I am a 33 year old caregiver to my husband who has stage IV kidney cancer. We have 3 small children and have been married 11 years. My husband's first surgery to remove his tumor and kidney was over 5 years ago. Since then we have endured several surgeries and chemo therapies When I say can't do it anymore, I'm not talking about being suicidal, I'm talking about feeling physically, mentally, and emotionally dead, to the point where you can just lay in bed for hours staring at the ceiling not realizing the time that has gone by. You have no motivation to do anything Everyday is the same — how can I even get out of bed, let alone take a shower and brush my teeth? It's like there is a black fog above me, pushing me further and further down into my bed I cannot get up. I cannot stand in the shower and wash myself. Of course, I know I need to get up and clean myself, but it's easier said than done All of the stress of carrying them as well as the fear that I will not be able to care for myself now and in the future (if my 2005 Toyota breaks down, I can't afford to fix it, for example), leaves me triggered into searing resentment every time my mother repeats the same story that she told me yesterday and the day before, each time as if I. You don't want to miss these crucial pieces of information because they can help you to take care of yourself and make decisions to keep yourself safe. Feelings aren't right or wrong. They are a reflection of your thoughts, experiences, and perceptions, which is why two people can have the same experience, but feel differently
When I go outside, I need to bathe because being outside makes me feel really dirty and I can't stand it. The main reason I don't take better care of myself anymore is because I don't feel like I have anyone to impress, so I feel like it's just a waste of time to get myself all dolled up. So, I don't think there's anything wrong with you Why don't I take care of myself? Can I just say how much I love this question? I believe that self-care is the key to feeling good. That means that your question is the key to finding the key! It's most effective to work on answering this when you have someone you can work with, such as a coach, counselor, or therapist June 1, 2017. When you live with depression, sometimes even the smallest of tasks can feel hard to conquer. Your typical routine may become challenging, and you may start losing motivation to get out of bed, shower, eat or be social. If depression affects your day-to-day schedule like this, you don't have to feel ashamed or alone It can take months, not just a few days, and with some of the treatments you will have to put in time and work. But I Need Help Now! Suppose you have started a mindfulness training or a course of cognitive behavioral therapy, but that you feel like you need help right away because you are overwhelmed by the anxiety you are experiencing
I have none of that anymore and find myself more and more trying to snuggle my kittes etc for any type of affection. He doesn't see it, or seem to care, and it is the middle of a pandemic how does a woman afford to move out on her own and feel good about herself when she can't survive financially we just hold on, because is easier. Take a risk to realize that people do care. They just might not always meet your expectations. Forgive others for not being perfect. Let go of your need to be right in your view of the world as an. I cant take care of myself and i need help but no one cares. i wish i could kill myeslf because this world is just bad. I dont want to play anymore. I cant take care of myself and it is wrong for me to expect people to do everything for me. but i cant do it myself and i never will According to a The Muse article, if you haven't had any advancements or promotions in the last couple of years, it might be time to leave. 2. You're Not Learning Anything New. You're bored and. I can't stand to be around my husband anymore and I don't say that lightly. I feel like I want to hide from him or escape. He is thoughtless. He only thinks of one thing these days (sex) and I guess that is all he believes I am good for. Being married to this man is like a sentence and I don't want to serve it anymore
I've given up on God because He doesn't seem to care about me. I can't even begin to list all the problems I have—money, health, job, family tensions, you name it. I know you say God cares about us but I haven't seen any evidence of it in my life If anyone i know ever reads this then im sorry u got hurt. The way i feel right now is too much to take. Im passed the point were i can cope as a normal human being. I can not even look after myself anymore. I no longer have a penny to my name. I will be homeless in a day or two. Infact i was expecting to end up killing myself in allyway How can I take care of myself at home? Please remember that it takes time for your muscles and nerves to heal. You may have complete relief of your pain immediately after your surgery, but that is not normal. Because it takes time for this healing process to occur, we ask that you not do too much to irritate your back
. by Sherry. (West Palm Beach, Florida) I was a protective loving Mother. I raised two children on my own. Both are hardworking and professional adult children. I have a son and a daughter and if you asked them about their childhood both would say that they had a good one, filled with love and kindness 3. He feels I am impossible to please. I can't please you. If I don't do what you want, you are unhappy. If I do what you want, you say I am only doing it because you told me to.. I can't win here.. I am in a no win situation.. It is the same thing, over and over with you.. It's impossible to please you.
Wow we have 3 disabled children. As we are getting older & they are too it's becoming harder. We have wondered if we will have to place our most severely handicapped child in a home even though we don't want to. Unless you've lived it - you can't say anything. Makes me wonder if you've ever had to take care of a person 24/7 for years with no. . That could mean getting out there and meeting other people, or it could mean distracting yourself by doing a hobby that you love Nursing home care is expensive and the reality is that most middleclass Americans cannot afford to pay for the care for an extended period of time. Often they need families to turn to state assistance, such as Medicaid (MassHealth in Massachusetts), to assist with the exorbitant cost of care. So, the greater question is how and when a family.
And since you can't control what they do, it's important to take care of yourself so that you can remain centered, feeling healthy and ready to live positively in the face of negativity when you must - mindfulness, meditation, prayer, and regular exercise work wonders First, why can't you just be who you are in your marriage? I remember this so clearly. I remember feeling trapped in someone that I didn't even recognize or like. I was trying to become someone that my partner wanted me to become, and yet, at the same time, I was completely railing against that and was turning into a really mean woman I have to force myself to clean any part of my body. When I think of the shower and how long it will take to clean myself, I think it's going to take too long so I don't take a shower. I feel dirty about myself, so when I don't take a shower I show the world how I am really feeling on the inside I am afraid to kill myself because i am afraid God wont forgive me but after years of this stuff with my son i cant even barely take care of myself anymore and all the help ive tried to find — people dont care, the church isnt there, if they are not stakeholders they dont seem to be willing so if you dont have that family in our society no. This is the one thing that I have ever fought with that completely consumed me and the thought of having to take care of anything but myself would have been so incredibly difficult that I am not.
Pexels /. Jeffrey Czum. You might feel like you've reached your breaking point. You might feel like giving up. You might feel like you can't handle another heartache, another disappointment, another day. But you are going to get through this. You are going to make it through today and then you are going to make it through tomorrow Music video by Cheap Trick performing I Can't Take It. (C) 1983 Sony BMG Music Entertainmen A commenter, Jessica, left a comment yesterday that so succinctly expresses what so many of us feel about depression, bipolar and mental illness, and continue to feel. The following is her comment and my response. when I just feel so sick and tired of fighting for what seems like nothingwhat seems like a never ending battlewhat seems like someone hitting me over the head with a two-by. I've had to detach myself, like you, in order to function each day and care for my other son. I thought maybe I should try and have that affidavit signed where I make decisions for him, since he clearly can't function on his own, can't even shower or get out of bed Well the hospital has discharged her and I can't take care of my mother. The adult protection services people, hospital, and the nursing home people keep mentioning how they are going to send her to a homeless shelter. She can't do anything on her own other than talk and eat. she can't stand, walk, bathe
Then I wonder if I'm just crazy and talking to myself. I do talk about him but only to those that I feel understand. Some people don't want to talk to me about him. I'm not sure why. Either its because they know I will cry and they can't handle that. Or, they can't handle what has happened at all so they try to pretend it didn't It's like my energy is clearing by the methods I have used to take care of myself in the past year and a half. I am finding a strong connection to Richard in my heart that I feared would go away but now I know will never die. I can't stop crying and I don't want to vanish from a broken heart, I have 2 older children and 4 beautiful. My husband is a very negative person in every aspect of his life. He is going to retire in about two months. This has put him in a very angry mood, which I understand. It's big decision for him to make. It is for me also. I just can't live with his anger and negativity anymore. I love him, but at the same time I can't stand him I can't fight for something I don't care about. If you find the right person, don't lose them. Don't care about the world, and just hold them for life. I wish people would appreciate what they have at the moment and not wait until the person they took for granted doesn't care anymore. I can't care for those who cannot care for me
Good tips, but I'm beyond some of them. Like I don't have any friends, and I can't talk to my mom about my feelings or she just gets mad. I can't afford summer camp and my husband doesn't trust babysitters. My husband and child both have OCD and anxiety, and he's paranoid as well. I have ADHD and maybe dyslexia. I feel so alone and. I get upset but tell myself, his work is helping the family, so I can give up my plans to help. But here he is, telling me I could take care of myself if I really wanted to, in fact I can lose 10 lbs this week before a family portrait. I can buy what ever I want to take care of my skin
I can't reconcile with myself to leave the man I've loved my whole life with a terminal illness but he seems to know that. Our kids and his family both have told me I shouldn't take his abuse. The kids support me 100% to leave him but then that puts the caregiving upon them But my husband would never let me take him and I know taking my son away from him will destroy him. I will be leaving my family without income. I do not want to leave my family in that position, but I am dying inside every day. To the point where my mind and heart is like a Zombie, I do not care anymore for myself, like I have given up on. At such a point, most people keep hoping for an external change to bring the momentum back. However, change comes from within, not from external factors. In short, being stuck is an inner feeling. You will get unstuck only if you choose to take the necessary steps. I Don't Want to Live Anymore: 11 Ways to Get Unstuck 1. Forget Your Past Failure He keeps telling me he doesn't love or care for me like he should. Hearing that hurts, even though I don't totally believe him. Part of me has lost respect for him. He can also stoop way too low sometimes Just recently, my husband told me he can't stand to be around me and that sex with me reminds him of the affair I had
My husband and soulmate of 25 years passed away March 1, 2016. I quit my job to take care of him. I am completely lost - everything has changed. I had to move because both my parents and my husband passed away and I just couldn't get away from the grief. Only one friend stuck by me. I have met new friends but just can't seem to connect This post is in answer to a question I received by email: how does one find a way to care about something when you don't care about anything? Apathy might be my least favourite feeling. Except. Parents often have little control over where their adult child is placed, or who the other residents will be. The services available for this group, and what they cost, vary. In general, the range is likely to be $40,000 to $75,000 yearly for rent, services and socialization, but it can be far more. It all boils down to finances and advocacy. If you're starting to feel undervalued in your relationship, here are five signs that can mean your partner doesn't care enough about you. 1. They Disregard Your Feelings. This is Russo's number. Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria Test: RSD Symptoms Checklist. Rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD) is an intense emotional response caused by the perception that you have disappointed others in your life and that, because of that disappointment, they have withdrawn their love, approval, or respect. The same painful reaction can occur when you fail or fall short of your rather high goals and.
I don't care if you've been single for several decades or several days. It can be easy to get down on yourself over the odds finding that perfect partner. Don't let yourself buy into the ridiculous myths, like It's more likely to get abducted by an alien than it is to get married after 40. Remember, anything and everything is possible Read Rebirth of the Little Lucky Star in 80s RLLS80 Chapter 297 English MTL: I can't take care of myself anymore!. I can't ask him to settle the account, then what should we do? Our daughter has suffered such a grievance, can we just forget it? That kind of dog thing, this time failed, maybe I am t It wasn't something I had to force myself to do. It wasn't punishment for eating the brownies. It wasn't about what the scale said the next day. I was being active because I loved my body and I wanted to take care of it. (Read more about my FitBit story here.) And, for the first time ever, I lost weight without dieting. It happened slowly My boyfriend can't live with me anymore due to my Grandmas Rules I wish people understood how close we were and how much we handled together . I feel lonely I don't get to wake up to him everyday anymore. I'm depressed.. I can't call my brothers because I blocked my moms number since she kept texting me negative things Won't take his meds - he says he doesn't have any problems, wears diapers and takes a shower maybe every month. I don't love him and we have never been married more than a piece of paper based on his lies. I feel dead and I don't why I get a death sentence taking care of person that doesn't speak, chooses not to hear and NEVER gives me any support
Can't get out of bed or leave the house. Can't work. Can't take care of themselves or others. Thinks or talks about suicide. That's what severe depression can look like, and it's a terrible and potentially deadly illness. Most people would notice those signs, realize something was wrong, and hopefully get some help I can't be the side chick, the fuck buddy, the 1 a.m. whiskey call. Early on I believed he might care, and perhaps early on he still did: he came by my apartment, unannounced, to say hello; he read my unpublished writing and sent his compliments; his texts came in hours before nightfall, asking about my day
But I really got to hang up the phone and take care of me for a moment,' she said. Don't try to be a superhero If you're stretched too thin, experts say, ask yourself, What am I taking on that. Long-term Care Insurance. LTC insurance pays for services received in facilities like nursing homes and assisted living. The policy also pays for activities of daily living services received at home. If you don't have a long-term care insurance policy, an individual can make a lump-sum payment to buy one
Tuning out a partner's asking for help is a clear sign that you really don't care about their workload in the relationship. It's also a sign that you don't put them as too high a priority. 2 93 Depression Quotes and Images from Social Media Category - Depression, Featured, Telling Our Story Depression can be incredibly isolating. A small (but growing) online community is forming around graphic quotes using social media sites such as Tumblr.com and Pinterest.com.The images and messages posted on these sites are a raw look into the thoughts and struggles of many thousands of. Sometimes it was a nightmare. I have to look at my blessings in that when he decided I wasnt enough and left I could financially take care of my self. I find myself 10 years out from divorce and i can see my scars from that experience and even a wound or two that has not completely healed. To protect myself I avoid all close relationships now
I can't do it anymore. He insists there is no problem. What are my options? I'm not getting any sleep and when he falls, I can't pick him up. My health is being compromised and I'm at my wit's end. Dr. Amy: I want to congratulate you for providing sixteen years of care to your husband! That truly is amazing I do live-in care and so do many of my colleagues because we believe home is the best place for people as they get older. The long term memory is intact and the home has many memories they can reminisce about. One on one care is better than having 8-12 people to care for. In an 8 hour shift you have approx. 7 hours to to take care of your work. I was like, 'I'm fed up. I'm at my point where I can't take it anymore,' he explains in the new issue of Us Weekly on stands now. I just had to surrender and say, 'I don't have. If someone you know is struggling emotionally or having a hard time, you can be the difference in getting them the help they need. It's important to take care of yourself when you are supporting someone through a difficult time, as this may stir up difficult emotions. If it does, please reach out for support yourself I can't fucking take it anymore I can't wait till I have my own house with these fucking adults acting like I only care about myself, manipulating me to think I am the scum of the earth and not letting me explain my situation because its an excuse
The Real Reason Your Wife Doesn't Want to Work. You've used logic, reason, ultimatums, bargaining and begging to no avail. Your wife still won't go back to work even though the kids are in school full-time. You may ask yourself why she spent time and money on an education only to unempower herself by becoming financially dependent upon you I can't have any male friends and they cant call me at home unless I do this secretly. I was frustrated with Mumma today and that's y I searched this on google. i was crying. But I know that one day I will be independent-financially. though I will take care of them I will never be in control of them anon April 2nd, 2019 . same for me but with watching videos all damn day at the end of the day i hate myself to bits because i'm still a student and not studying at all has taken such a great toll on my grades. just 6 years ago i was a straight a student but since then when i discovered the joys of youtube, my addiction spiral has really declined my grades and now i'm flunking every. It wasn't the case, I was to scared to sit for 5min in a day because everything had to be perfect. I had Parkinson's disease for 6 years before I told him, he didn't take it well at all - but funny enough I couldn't take his persona anymore. Please girls, don't stay too long - we are not made to be door-mats. Be careful and take care Gale, I too am a senior citizen living in an assisted living home. I do not need assisted living, as such, since I can take good care of myself. It is very lonely here in Salisbury N.C. but I can make it. I wish you were closer and after this Covi d-19 is over, we could visit one another